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Should I tell her my true feelings? She is very friendly with everyone and I'm not sure if she will accept me?

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Question - (13 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2012)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *rico writes:

Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for but she doesn't know. Anytime am by her side i feel so happy that i joke to the maximum with her and she loves it which makes me feel much more better. She shares her private life stories with me sometimes telling me of her past boyfriends and i also try to advice her on certain issues relating to her and she appreciates it.

The problem is that i don't know if i tell her she's going to accept me because some of my friends approached her she rejecting some and mingling with some one attitude of hers is her friendliness with people which gives me double mind of me telling her my feelings. Numerous times i do call her sweetheart which she does reciprocates just for pleasantry sakes. Even when i was about to travel to where am studying which i told her am goin to be there for about 2 months. She told me she going to miss me dearly together with some other girls. When i finally got to where am studying i started missing her which made me call her sometimes boasting her happiness telling me she misses me. If i don't call her for a long time she'll call me and we chat well.

Sometimes when i call my friends they'll tell me she's asking of me ceaselessly to an extent that i don't call her for a long time she'll call asking me why i didnt call her for that long. A day arrived that i just decided to pay a visit where she works and it happened that she travelled, due to the fact that i told her on phone that am coming to pay a visit to her workplace she told she'll leave wherever she went to just to come and see me. To my greatest surprise she came and we chatted for a long time. When it was time for me to go she decided to see me off to where am going to take a bus back to where am studying then she left back to where she studying.

So dear friends am contemplating whether if i tell her my true feelings she is going to accept me. Dear friends i'll need your candid advice most espercially the females. Thanks all for your cooperation.

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A male reader, erico Nigeria +, writes (13 December 2012):

erico is verified as being by the original poster of the question

erico agony auntThank you all so much i really do appreciate your lovely approach. My fear is for her not to say no may be telling me she got another guy because i really do love her dearly. Please i will really do appreciate more of your cooperation. Thanks all so much for your dedication.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntWhat a lovely post...life is too short to keep your feelings of love inside.

She has given off signs that she really likes you and worries when you do not get in touch.

Ask her that when you next see her you would like to ask her on a date, just you and her...see how things go and maybe reveal to her slowly that you have feelings for her...because I think she feels the same way about you too.

Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2012):

She likes you..!!!!!!!! Go tell her this very second and take a chance..!

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