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Should I tell girls that I'm a virgin if I want to hook up?

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Question - (20 April 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *kelligon writes:

I have some parties coming up. If I happen to 'hook up' with a girl who isn't a virgin, should I tell her the truth, that I'm a virgin? I'm afraid of her reaction.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

yes i am 31 and still a virgin. It is great to have values and waiting for that right person

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

dONT LOSE ur virginity with a hook up, get a girlfriend do u know that the girl that hooks up with u will give u every thing she has caught from all the guys SHE has hooked up with?? or did u not know how many diseases u can get even if u wear a condom, is it really worth it go thru all that stress or worrying, andis this somethingu want to do or its just cause everyone is doing it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

the very fact that you would even ask that question is proof that you don't have any bussiness having sex. A person's virginity is meant to be given to a person that you truly love. You only do it once and you'll remember it fondly or regret it for the rest of your life.

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A female reader, nicole_17 United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2008):

Being 15 and a virgin, is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! my boyfriend is 16 nearlii 17 and still a virgin Wait until your ready, don't rush into things!

Being a girl myself I would prefer my guy to be a virgin also because it shows me that he's sensible and isn't the sort of guy who sleeps with different girls all the time!

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A female reader, nicole_17 United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2008):

yer if she likes you them she will be understanding ive been with ma bf for a year now and he is still a vigin and he told me wen we first gt together this made me less worried bowt him as i dint have to worry he was sleeping around if you like hte girl that much tell her x

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A female reader, nicole_17 United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2008):

yer if she likes you them she will be understanding ive been with ma bf for a year now and he is still a vigin and he told me wen we first gt together this made me less worried bowt him as i dint have to worry he was sleeping around if you like hte girl that much tell her x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

yea dude what the hell! did you even know that girls also get a reputtation. thats not right if you just want to do it cuz your horny then theres others ways insted of loosing all you got. it sucks cuz wen you actually meet the girl of your dreams you might have a list of girls to show her and that would suck for you and her and it becomes so hard to deal with as you get older. dont do it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

Being 13-15 and a virgin, is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! I feel the indication that you're not ready for sex, but are feeling under pressue to have intercourse? Wait until your ready, don't rush into things!

Being a girl myself (and virgin) at 16, I would prefer my guy to be a virgin also because it shows me that he's sensible and isn't the sort of guy who sleeps with different girls all the time! If you find a mature lass, she'll admire you and have more trust in you if you're a virgin!

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A female reader, Tigerlily United States +, writes (20 April 2008):

Darlin' you are only 15 and this is how you want to lose your virginity? Hooking up with some random girl at a party? Of course you are afraid of her reaction, you don't even know the girl.

I wish you would reconsider. Get a girlfriend who cares about you, who you care about. Then you can learn what sex is truly supposed to be about between two people. You don't want the story you carry with you for the rest of your life to be you lost your virginity to some total stranger at a party.

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