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writes:DEAR CUPID .. I have been on again off again seeing this guy. He has a seven year old daughter and a baby mama that he was with for ten years. I really like him when were together we have lots of fun talking and jus being "together". The problem is it’s not consistent. We don’t really talk on the phone and sometimes see each other. I want a little bit more but am terrified to say that I do. How do I approach him with this thought and being that he’s not really making an effort to show he wants something else should I even try?Please help! Reply to this Question |
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reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
So long as he is single, then I think it is time you talked about the future of your relationship. If you don't know what to do, then just meet him, talk to him for a while, then when you feel comfortable enough, ask him about whether he would like to take the relationship further. He may not be in another rush, but you do need to at least know how he feels and how he wants to move things forward. Gently talk to him about it.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
 I assume he is no longer with the ex and is single?
If that is the case then i would just be open and honest about what you want, there is no point in treading lightly here, if he has been in a long term relationship of ten years mind you he may well not be in too much of a hurry to jump right into another one!
I think you need to talk this over with him because if he wont make the effort your best knowing now rather than wasting your time.
Gina
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