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writes:DEAR CUPID .. I have been on again off again seeing this guy. He has a seven year old daughter and a baby mama that he was with for ten years. I really like him when were together we have lots of fun talking and jus being "together". The problem is it’s not consistent. We don’t really talk on the phone and sometimes see each other. I want a little bit more but am terrified to say that I do. How do I approach him with this thought and being that he’s not really making an effort to show he wants something else should I even try?Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 November 2009):
So long as he is single, then I think it is time you talked about the future of your relationship. If you don't know what to do, then just meet him, talk to him for a while, then when you feel comfortable enough, ask him about whether he would like to take the relationship further. He may not be in another rush, but you do need to at least know how he feels and how he wants to move things forward. Gently talk to him about it.
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