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writes:I loved my life in the US, had a fantastic job... met the love of my life and moved to England to be with him.We were able to see each other only for a couple of weeks every 3 months, and got married whilst I was still in the US. We joked about the insanity of what we were doing and mused on the passing resemblance to an arranged marriage. Now we are living together; I am still desperately in love with him, however his body language and actions indicate that he has fallen out of love with me... our first anniversary passed with a glancing acknowledgement, he treats me as a buddy. It hurts like hell. I wonder if it would be better to leave, completely start again from square 1 in a new country and hopefully find love, or somehow make myself fall out of love with him and stay as a buddy. Yes, I've asked him how he feels, and he tells me what I want to hear, but his words are completely contradicted by his actions.
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reader, soul83  +, writes (12 October 2010):
OK this is difficult to answer without knowing a bit more about the circumstances of your relationship. How long did you know each other before getting married?
Did you live together full time first?
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear that he has treated your anniversary like it was no big deal! I suggest you try to talk to him and find out why exactly he wants to treat you so indifferently. I cannot imagine why he would want to treat you like 'just a buddy'. It sounds as though you aren't getting enough, or the right, attention from him.
Good luck!
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