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Should I stay with my boyfriend who is unaffectionate or get back with my ex? They are best friends.

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Question - (10 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and for 2 weeks now he has hardly hugged or talked to me and my ex who is also my boyfriends best mate has started having feelings for me again.

My Boyfriend lately has been saying nasty stuff to me and him and my ex stayed round on friday. when my boyfriend went out me and my ex were talkin then we started kissing and now i really like my ex, i asked him if we get back together would we last and he said yeah. But i dont want them two fallin out.

Should i stay with my boyfriend who treats me like crap or get with my ex again??

Please help me. thank you. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010):

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Ive dumped my boyfriend now, but yet were good mates and then my ex amited to everyone he likes me :)

he says he might go out with me again but yesterday i had this other lad say he likes me but he is my best friends ex

now im really confussed wat to do ??

xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010):

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Thanks For You Help, danni95 thank you so much i might just do that. :) xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010):

You broke up with your previous boyfriend for a reason, right? So what makes you think dating your ex again is going to be any different than before?

Just because he said you two will last doesn't mean anything. You guys are 13-15 yrs old, correct? Once high school/ college starts, the relationship will break and you would have wasted your time.

Forget about both of them.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2010):

Neither of these two guys is right for you at all. Your current boyfriend isn't treating you well, so he's not worth it. And your ex has already failed you, or he wouldn't be an ex. Look forward to the future, not the past, and leave both these guys behind.

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A female reader, danni95 United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2010):

hope this advice helps. really this is up to you, but im sure i can help with your situation. if your boyfriend your with now loved you then really he shouldnt be nasty to you and treat you that way and it sounds as if your ex is a nice guy, really if i was you i woudnlt stay who your with now and go back with your ex because if they fall out its not your fault really as your boyfriend now shouldnt be treating you like crap or another choice is to stop going with the guy your going with now and dont get back with your ex and move on and get on with your life and find better guys. xx

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