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writes:Hello everyone, need a little advice here as I'm not sure what to do. Split up from my ex about ten months ago and friends suggested going on a dating site.. Anyway I've had a lot of fun chatting to men, but some are just downright disrespectful and I know are only out for cheap sex and thrills. After having a few disastrous dates, one guy I met at 8 and I was back home by 9..hmm. A few days later I met what I can only call a gentleman about six weeks ago, we went out had lunch, the date went really well and I think we clicked. We have kept in touch, but due to his family problems..a close relative seriously ill, nothing really has developed and we haven't met up again but he assures me that he wants to.Well we were texting each other for a bit of fun quite suggestively and I suppose things got out of hand and he sent me an intimate pic. Being new to the dating scene, is this a normal sort of thing to expect? Or do you think I should run a mile? He seemed such a gentleman on the date, but he assured me that this was a one off and he doesn't normally do that sort of thing....any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 If the picture made you feel uncomfortable i would suggest having nothing more to do with him, i find it a little strange that someone would send a picture like that to someone they have only met once, and i think it would freak me out.
At the end of the day it's up to you, just be safe.
Take care.xx.
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reader, angell33  +, writes (29 September 2007):
Well I wouldn't run. But, I would be cautious. Really it will take more one on one conversation and time spent with him to be sure. A good thing to remember about the internet is that out of 100 men, I would say 75 are looking for sex and a good time. 25 are good honest decent men looking for love. Atleast that has been my experience. Just be cautious and watch for tell tale signs that this man is just out for a good time or married. As the internet is full of married men pretending to be single with little time to offer and a whole bunch of lies. Be carefull.
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