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writes:I met a girl and we both were in relationships through school. The chemistry was so strong between us that I felt like I had to distance us, so I unfriended her. Couple years later I have broken up with my partner (which in hindsight should have done back then).Do I contact or try refriend her? And if so what do or say?I felt like an idiot at the time doing what I had to do but knew it was best for me in the long term.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2022): Sorry, if I was not clear. School as in college. It was 3-4 years ago that I unfriended her and her friends (seeing them reminded me of her)
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (13 April 2022):
 You unfriended her while you were at school, which according to your age bracket would have been some time ago.
Assuming that you have not seen her, or had contact with her since you were at school, a lot of water has gone under the bridge since then and you are both different people to what you was back then with different lives.
In my opinion i would be inclined to leave the past in the past and get on with your life, for all you know she could very well be in a relationship, or be married with a family now.
However i feel this is going to niggle away at you and your contemplating establishing contact no matter what advice your given here on DC. So all you can do is just send a friendly polite text or email and ask how she is and how she is getting on and see what response you get. But i would not hold out to much hope in getting the result you are hoping to achieve
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