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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok so there is this guy that i used to work with until he was transferred a couple of weeks ago to another store. while we did work together we became friends and eventually our friendship turned into something more. i was in the middle of a seperation and he was in a relationship at the time. i know that what we did was wrong, but i don't regret it. i actually started having feelings for him. it only happened one time, and then we went to just being friends again. this went on for 2 or 3 months. then i was talking to him and a mutual friend and found out that him and his girlfriend weren't doing well and there was a good chance they would be breaking up soon. well we kind of started talking again, never hung out or anything though. then all of a sudden he was transferred to another store. there was another employee that was supposed to take his place orignially but backed out so he was offered more money and it was closer to his home so he took the job. now it's been a couple weeks and i have tried to contact him but his responses are very few and far between. so i was thinking of playing hard to get. i really miss talking to him. and i'm pretty sure that him and his girl have broken up. at least that is the rumor around the job now. but i haven't actually been able to ask him since he transferred. so what do i do. do i forget it. do i email him and ask why he's ignoring me, do i play hard to get.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Ahh...playing games is always not a good idea. However, he sounds like a total player. Would you want to date a guy who has no issues with cheating on his girlfriend? I wouldn't!
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