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writes:Hey all, So I've been friends with this girl for over 2 years and we've both been through boyfriends and girlfriends while being friends. We work together and we talk a lot and people have wondered if we have been together, are going out, or why we haven't gone out yet. And I think there have been feelings somewhere there for the both of us, but mainly more from me. I've wanted to be with her for a long time, but have just been semi-content to even be around her and be her friend. Even her mom has said that she would want her to date somebody like me. She's beautiful, she's funny, has humor similar to mine, she's just awesome. Recently she got out of a long-term relationship and I feel more of a connection has been going on. I don't know if its all in my head, but I'm fairly certain there is something there. Only I'm not sure what to do because of uncertain how she is feeling and the whole aspect of working together. Any ideas? And bear in mind that I am a pretty shy guy, not so much around her, but I usually am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): I think you should make a move, but move very slowly, since she just got out of a long term relationship. Be a friend first, and talk to her about her feelings, etc. since the breakup that she had with someone else. And if she starts getting uncomfortable when you finally do ask her out on a date, let her know that this is fine, and that you will always be happy to be her friend.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (19 July 2009):
 I think you should just try asking her out on a date,and just try to spend a little more time with her socially.If that starts to work out then you can try explaining your feelings.But for now just take things slow and let her get comfortable with the idea of you twp together.
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reader, cdognon  +, writes (19 July 2009):
aw cute!
i think, you should say something, tell her how you feel, and also let her know how you understand that she has just gotten out of a long term relationship and that if she needs time then you understand.
to tell her how you feel, perhaps just say something like i hope you dont mind but i think i like you, that would be cuteee
who cares that you work together...
dont let this opportunity pass you by because you might regret not saying anything!!
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