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*lexis**
writes:i love my guy-friend like a brother, hes always been the ONLY guy i have that i can depend on. i've had a little crush on him since we met, and he liked me too but i never acted on it b/c my on/off bf of 3years.(i've known my b-g-f just as long).a friend of ours committed suicide, which was real hard for us and we went to a grievence councelor together. he said alot of REAL personal, deep stuff while we were there and it brought back my feelings stronger.i hadn't seen him in awhile, but i hung out w/ him @a party today and all my feelings came back.he had a huge crush on me, and he told me after he was w/ his current gf for a cupple months.(they've been together 8 months now, which is REAL un-usual 4him)when ever im around them, she acts uptight and like im tryin2 steal him.he cheated on her once, but they worked it out and they seem happy now. i really care about him, i should just keep my mouth shut..... rite???????
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Well haven't you been beating around the bush long enough? Tell him how you feel, girlfriend or not..Who by the way is giving you the stink eye because she knows you're a threat. He could either break up with her for you or he could tell you that he really likes her. Either way you guys are still going to be friends. If he chooses her then find a guy you like to bid your time before he dumps her..if he cheated on her it's only a matter of time. Chances are those feelings aren't going to go away because they've already been around this long.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Tell him how you feel about him otherwise. I've tried to keep things like this a secret, never told anyone at all and it drove me insane.
You are his closest friend yes? Then you can just be honest with him. I'm sure you'll make a much better girlfriend than the one that cheated on him.
I hope that helps.
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