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41-50,
*hortcake
writes:Trying to make a long story short:My ex is about 5 yrs younger than me. When we met he seemed sincere. However, he lied very badly and in the result it cost me. He claimed he wanted to be with me and granted he was younger seemed to be very mature. Before we were together I allowed 2 friends to move in. (WOMEN) He lost his job and so did these 2 women. One of these women made a pass at him and he states he turned her down. However, over a period of time the advances became stronger and hey a man is a man. It results in oral sex. He states a few years later he never had sex with her but she performed oral sex on him. In turn she gave him money, etc. She also told him I was cheating on him and a lot of other lies. While together we got cellular phones on the same account. He was paying the bill as requested but decided to stop. I suspended his line until he paid his portion. However, once his lined was turned back on he ran the bill up to $2,000. Yes, I said $2,000! Those phones needless to say were turned off. Now years later we have crossed paths and he states he has matured and is willing to pay me back for the bill. He would also like to try to start over. Should I let my guard down and give him a second chance?
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reader, Shortcake +, writes (27 September 2010):
Shortcake is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you both "MIKE" and "Caring Guy".
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reader, M][KE  +, writes (4 September 2010):
I think deep down you know what you should do.
You broke up for a reason, reasons that you clearly remember quite well. If he's matured great! Let him pay you back and keep it civil. Leave it all in the past.
Your life only goes in one direction... forward.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 September 2010):
NO!
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