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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months plus but we are going to be separated for 3 months. Because I am going for a summer programme for 3 months in a few days time.And yesterday, I was in his room and we make out and things started to get really physical. And when he wanted to touch my vagina and urge me to allow him to do so I rejected his idea. Do you guys think that I should allow him to do so so that maybe it will build a stronger bond before I leave? Or should I continue to reject him until my return from the summer trip?As I am still unsure if I am ready to make this move but I got to admit that I almost agreed because it was the first time we got so intimate yesterday and it felt really good. Plus we won't get to see one another for the next 3 months...So should I let him touch me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): No save it for when you return. Alot can happen in 3 months and i can assure you, if you let him do that now it wont build a bond. If you want to stay in his thoughts and for him to wait for you, then promise it for when you get back. By then you will know whether you really want to do that sort of thing with him or not x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): If you're feeling uneasy and unsure about it, go with your gut feeling and wait it out. Never feel you should do anything sexually for someone else, unless you are first wanting to do it for yourself. If you feel he is moving too fast then he is, and you should wait until you are more comfortable and sure about him, as a partner. You might not know him as well as you think you do if you're unsure about going through with something like that just yet.
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (28 April 2010):
No.
The reasons are:
1. If you feel the need to ask, you're not ready.
2. The "stronger bond" will be on your side, not his - and so if it doesn't work out, you'll be the one that is more hurt.
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