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writes:Hi. This is going to be really long so please bare with me and i appreciate any help!ive got a boyfriend and weve been going out for 2 years. we re really happy and close to each other and he is so nice to me. But we disagree on alot of things that cause alot of arguments. one example is Im buddhist so i believe in respecting all life but on the other hand he goes shooting for rabbits and foxes ect.. Recently ive met another boy at college and he is really lovely and i never thought i would find anyone like this but he has exactly the same veiws on absolutly everything as me! I spent the day with him a while ago and it was amazing! He told me he really likes me and hes so glad hes found someone the same as him too. I really think i would be happier with this guy ive never met anyone like him, but then again i might not and i would have lost my boyfriend. he does everything for me but hes so different, And im so scared that if i left him hed be so devestated and lonely becuase he tells me all the time thats how he would feel. and it might turn out to be the wrong decision and i would regret it.. How do i know whats the right thing to do?? Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 It all depends on what your heart says to you not what be left in the past. don't let the potential hurt to BF 1 influence what you feel for BF 2. BF 1 will put his life back together quicker than you might think. What you do now should be what is good for you for the future. You know ou can't live on the past feelings for long that would not be nurturing to your karma. best Regards, R.
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Before you jump to any conclusion about the situation, perhaps you should get to know the guy a bit more. Often a man will tell a woman what she wants to hear to get them into bed and it sounds like your boyfriend really cares about you. You have to ask yourself, do you love your boyfriend, despite your differences? If the answer is yes, then you should perhaps keep your distance from this man. You said he'd do anything for you, but would this other man? Hope this helps (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): Hmmm, this one is tough, I would never cheat, and i don't think you should either, but if you feel that you and your current boyfriend arent the same, just think weather you think you have a future with him, and if you think you'd be ALOT happier with the other person, then i'd say do whatever you think would be best for you and don't let anybody get in your way. but if you think your current boyfriend is going to be sad, your gonna have to figure out something to let him go gently without hurting him, i think i'd probably want to die if my boyfriend left me for another girl. just think how you'd feel if it was you before you make your decision, i hope this has helped and i wish ou good luck! xxx
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