He promised not disappear, but he has!
Q. Hi, i am dating this guy for over 4 months, he called me in my birthday, and he told me what i was doing, i told him 2 weeks ago that i will like to share with him and my best friends, and hes says it was ok, when the day arrived he called me and he ...
A. 19 July 2010: Is there a possibility that his phone has broken, the battery is dead and he can't find the charger?... (read in full...)
I can't go on like this. He's the only one who can make me into a better person! :( I need answers please.
Q. [OP original title] Ok, so im a teenager. I do drugs (only marijuana), I drink, and smoke ciggerettes. I want to quit so badly but I can't, my biggest crush ever does the same. but when i'm with him everything changes, it's like i can quit ever...
A. 6 July 2010: Quitting drugs, alcohol and smoking can be simple if you take it slowly and do it one at a time. You can cut it down so eventually you don't need it and there are many advice lines you can call for support. You'll find yourself feeling a lot fresher ... (read in full...)
Could I be a couple months pregnant and not know it?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7 months now, and have been sexually active. this is my first month off the pill after being on it for 3 months, and since i went on the pill, we have not been using protection. i have been really ...
A. 6 July 2010: The most reliable source for this topic is a pregnancy test as you've been told numerous times. It could just be a hormones you're not used to. (:... (read in full...)
He promised not disappear, but he has!
Q. Hi, i am dating this guy for over 4 months, he called me in my birthday, and he told me what i was doing, i told him 2 weeks ago that i will like to share with him and my best friends, and hes says it was ok, when the day arrived he called me and he ...
A. 6 July 2010: I would say to ring his home. I don't see why he would want to upset you on your birthday. He called you to ask when to meet you and clearly was expecting a call. Perhaps he had left his phone behind. How long has it been since you text him?... (read in full...)
Does becoming FWB destroy the chances of becoming something more?
Q. I have become fwb with an old flame who i have liked for a long time, problem is i want more but dare not say anything! we have only been together twice but he stopped all night and cuddled me, stroked my hair held my hand and kissed my forehead ...
A. 5 July 2010: I wouldn't say it destroys your chance to become something more, but it won't be as special when you elope if you do become something more. If you want it, just ask. The most you'll lose is a couple of days of casual sex. Chances are you could ... (read in full...)
Its illegal for me to be in love with my boyfriend
Q. Dear cupid, me and my boyfriend just got together on the 19th of june.his way older than me we are 4-5 years apart . It is illegal is my state .because i am under age but he promised me we wouldnt do anything until i finish ...
A. 5 July 2010: Parents shouldn't be able to control your life and you would probably be better off dating someone your age, as they wouldn't be able to do anything in the line of suing, arresting or otherwise. As you are still only young and only chatting online, ... (read in full...)
Gay, but I cannot be.
Q. Hi everyone, I am a 26 male profisionnal successfu engineer and i still virgin because i think i am Gay and I actully have this feeling when I was 10 or 11, I only attracted sexually to men and I feel making sex with women is uncomfortable and i ha...
A. 5 July 2010: If you were to marry a female, I would suggest a close female friend, who does know your secret. That way you love each other and are comfortable, but she would probably be accepting that you see other people. However, I wouldn't recommend it as a ... (read in full...)
My flirtation with a 49 year old man!
Q. How much does age have to do in a relationship because lately I have started a flirtation with a 49 year old. He is a very young 49, he dresses young, and he is my mums friends son. We have known each other for three years and really I have on...
A. 5 July 2010: Sounds like he's into you and the ‘look at that, isn’t that disgusting!’ remark could be trying to get a reaction out of you. As you are an adult, age is no longer a concern and you are in charge of your own love life, so why not take the reins if ... (read in full...)
Scared to say I love you!
Q. Dear cupid, I have this boyfriend we have been going out for about a 20 days we are both 14..i love him so so much but we havent told each other that we loved each other...i am to worried if i say it first in case he doesnt say it back to me? why ...
A. 3 July 2010: You're only 14 and infatuation is overwhelming, but twenty days is not even three weeks. Besides which, most 14 years olds say it just generally without meaning it. It's a normal reaction "i love you" "I LOVE YOU TOOOOOOOOOOOO" :L... (read in full...)
I asked her for sex, she is shy and said no, what can I do??
Q. i m very much attracted to my cousin sister she was really close to me so i asked for sex but she refused and we both are not talking to each other now but we meet daliy eveen she is feeling shy to talk to me now so plz tell me wat should i do now ...
A. 2 July 2010: Also she's your "cousin's sister" which would make her your cousin too. The other aunts are completely right and I doubt she will change her mind.... (read in full...)
I gave him a love bite and now he's acting all weird
Q. Im so upset rite now, Im having problams with a guy im sort of seeing but where not in a relationship but sleeping together, anyway a few days ago i gave him a love bite and obviously he noticed it, it wasnt huge and could hardly notice it, ...
A. 30 June 2010: If you're not in a proper relationship, there's a possibility that he's seeing another person, as it's generally acceptable when "seeing somebody", though this is most likely not the reason. I think being "upset" about a love bite is a little petty, ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, am I into girls as well?
Q. hello, well this is kinda crazy because im striaght and i got boyfriend which we are madly in love. 2 days ago i went to a bar with my mates and we all went outside to have a fag, while i was looking for my lighter one girl gave me hers, ...
A. 27 June 2010: It's perfectly fine to have an attraction to women, most people do at one stage in their life have ponder the thought of being with someone of the same sex. You should ask yourself whether you are happy with your boyfriend, and whether you would be ... (read in full...)
Should I be giving him a harder time about this?
Q. Hi there Agony Aunts and Uncles. I suppose it's not a big deal as I probably will never see these two guys again, but I still need your say on the matter because I don't know if I'm being too soft or too hard on this one guy. I had my prom just a ...
A. 27 June 2010: This sounds a little petty and the guy sounds like a creep. How did your dress get ruined though? And your prom date may have a little crush on you... (;... (read in full...)
Should I try to get him back?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago because the was no trust in the relationship. he is 4 yrs older then me but i really think i`ve fallen for him. when i got with him it for a bit of fun then it got serious. i duno what to do i want him...
A. 27 June 2010: You're still only young and I think you should shoot for someone your own age. If there was no trust in the relationship, then is there any point in getting him back? Remember the reasons you broke up with him and remember you're at a young ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend to be with this guy who seems to be far more compatible with me?
Q. Hi. This is going to be really long so please bare with me and i appreciate any help! ive got a boyfriend and weve been going out for 2 years. we re really happy and close to each other and he is so nice to me. But we disagree on alot of things t...
A. 27 June 2010: Before you jump to any conclusion about the situation, perhaps you should get to know the guy a bit more. Often a man will tell a woman what she wants to hear to get them into bed and it sounds like your boyfriend really cares about you. You have to ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find anyone, male or female, who loves me for who I am?
Q. Heyy, Well the thing is I'm a really self-conscious person, I hide myself a lot (mostly my face) and I freak out when I'm standing with or next to a boy or a girl (I'm Bisexual) I know I'm not pretty, and I hate it when person tell me otherwise...
A. 27 June 2010: Of course you will. I know numerous people have said "there's someone out there for everyone" but it's true and all you have to do is look. And clearly, although you find it degrading, when people are asking you to do things, they find you ... (read in full...)
How do I learn not to come across as bitchy and judgemental?
Q. Many of my close friends, family members, past partners, in the last year have noted I'm judgemental, unpleasant about people I don't approve of, angry, basically a bitch. In my mind I have a bitchy sense of humour, but obviously for some people it ...
A. 27 June 2010: Perhaps you should go for more subtle ways of giving people your opinion. For instance, instead of saying "don't buy that, it makes you look fat", you could say, "I'm not sure that suits your shape". And suggest an alternative. And maybe keep ... (read in full...)
I've done so much for him, why is he suddenly being so rude?
Q. i really like this guy i work with. ill admit i like him more than friends but ive done a hell of a lot for him since he started-supported him through his probation at work, brought him stuff to cheer him up and been a rock to him through his spilt ...
A. 27 June 2010: He doesn't sound worth your time. Do you know why his wife and him have split? Perhaps this could be the reason. If it bothers you, you could confront him about it. He will most likely be overwhelmed by your outburst and in denial, but I guarantee ... (read in full...)
Torn between my girlfriend and another girl!
Q. 3 weeks ago I got with this great girl, shes my age (14), beautiful, smart and everyone likes her. I love her but I don't feel any connection with her, I think its just something i'm going through but i find myself looking,dreaming and even liking ...
A. 27 June 2010: Of course you're going to be more attracted to your best friend, you have so many connections with her and you've known her all your life. But if she says it's awkward I'm afraid there isn't much you can do. Plus if she does like you, having a ... (read in full...)
Is 12 years too much?
Q. Hey, I'm 22 and worrying about the age gap between my boyfriend and I. He's twelve years older than me and we've been friends since I was nineteen - I met him at 'work' if you can call it that (I play pro sport) - and we've been together for a year ...
A. 27 June 2010: As Ebony Blossom says, at your age you're old enough to make your own decisions and if you are happy with him, who's to say that he's not right for you. I'm sure your mother would be content to see you happy with a man and if not, so what? If you're ... (read in full...)
Are all guys superficial?
Q. I'm 17 this year; I'm fat but not disgustingly obese, don't have a pretty face and very self-conscious deep down. The thing is, I'm very confident and most people look at me as the hyper and bubbly one who brightens up everyone's day but inside, I ...
A. 27 June 2010: Aha, you sound like myself. Not all guys are superficial. You must exude confidence and always be yourself. Get oiut into the world, do something you love and if you're really unhappy with your shape, perhaps join the gym: this is can also be a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a jealous cheater
Q. No matter what i do he still cheat on me.my boyfriend of 1year and some months wont stop cheating on me i dnt know why and the funniest thing is that the girls according to him cant be rated with me yet he cheat. am a beautiful girl,sex...
A. 27 June 2010: He doesn't sound worth your time, cut your losses. No retaliation or revenge schemes.... (read in full...)
I saw my boyfriend put his hand on my roommates breast
Q. HI, I have been dating a guy for four and half years. He is very simple and shy guy. He treat my roommate as a sister. Last night we three were drunk but I was that drunk. I don't know how high he was, I saw him putting his hand in my room mate bre...
A. 27 June 2010: Ow, I can imagine how much that hurts. I know I would want to keep the guy away from my room mate, but understand it won't happen. Being as he was high/ drunk some lenience should be given to him and if he's sincere about his apology, you should ... (read in full...)
Why is she angry with me for trying to protect her?
Q. Heres the story.. My girlfriend and I were at a bar/dance spot in town with friends yesterday. By the end of the night things got out of control because a few guys started fighting the bouncers. Naturally everyone started rushing to watch the figh...
A. 27 June 2010: I can understand both points. She didn't want to leave because she was having fun and you, being a good boyfriend, wanted to get her out of harm's way. I'm sure she would have been fine had you just kept a close eye on her. The fact that she had ... (read in full...)
Ladies, if your best male friend suddenly kissed you, what would you think?
Q. How would you react if your best male friend (who you knew liked you) suddenly leaned over and kissed you on the lips? How would you react based on if you did or did not like them? Would you ever go along with it if you had no feelings for them in ...
A. 27 June 2010: I've asked this question before, and most girls say they would go along with it, so as to not to hurt their feelings. Personally, I think it depends on the way the woman feels about the guy. Though it may make things awkward, and if it was, the guy ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to cum really quickly for your first time of getting intimate?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I've grown really close to my girlfriend over the last few weeks and we recently started experimenting with each other - taking steps. Today, we went to third base, she gave me a hand job, at which point I was very VERY turned o...
A. 27 June 2010: You're new to it, you're excited.
My friend's boyfriend prematurely ejaculated the first time they had intercourse. She'll find it amusing, but not unusual.... (read in full...)
I feel like my relationship is at breaking point, what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over two years, during the last few months our relationship has become - to my mind - quite strained. Our sex life is actually non existent, we had sex about a week before our second aniversery, prior ...
A. 27 June 2010: I wouldn't suggest cutting down all communication, but maybe give her this "space" she needs and when you do see her, perhaps bring her flowers or take her for a romantic meal. Make her want to see you again, remember what you used to do at the ... (read in full...)
He left his girlfriend for me, but hasn't spoken to me in weeks, whats going on??
Q. ok here goes, its a long story but worth a shot! ... ive been seein this guy for about 4 months now, when we first started seein each other everything was amazing, kisses, cuddles, laying on the beach of an evening watching the stars etc, but t...
A. 27 June 2010: If he is willing to ditch her for you, he's willing to ditch you for someone else. Janniepeg could be right that he is a commitment phobe and you should be aware that even if you're together for a long period of time, he most likely wouldn't be able ... (read in full...)
Why does he spend more time with his friends than me, and how can I get him to stop?
Q. So, I'm dating this guy. He's really amazing. We always have a good time when we hang out together and he seems like he's really into me... but there's a problem. He always spends way more time with his friends, than he does with me. I have talkes a...
A. 27 June 2010: Absense makes the heart fonder. Don't ruin a perfectly good relationship because the man likes his companions. Make the most of your time with him and maybe you could spend a little more time with your friends. You're still young and you don't want ... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance with this guy?
Q. I meet this guy about two weeks ago . Of course sparks are in the air everything is peaches in cream . Their are somethings that I don't like about him and I hav told him. He drinks and smoke ! Which is a negative because I do no such thing and have ...
A. 27 June 2010: He sounds like the type that would try to keep you away from the world. I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with drinking and smoking as a lot of decent blokes do it. Perhaps try talking to an ex of his to find out what he's like in a relation... (read in full...)
Do I really dress like a slut?
Q. People think I'm a how because of the way I dress. I am a beautiful blonde with great legs and nice natural breasts. I like to show it off through what I wear. Guys are always getting pissed off at me for "leading them on." tgey know im un a ...
A. 27 June 2010: Some men consider it "coming on to them" for adding an extra kiss to the end of a text. There's nothing wrong with showing off a bit of leg or breast- chickens do it all the time (sorry couldn't resist). Perhaps only showing off one thing at a tim... (read in full...)
Too shy to have sex because I'm worried about the size of my penis...
Q. Hi. I'm 16yo. My penis is something like 5.7 - 6in long when erect. I'm still virgin.. I had maybe 7 chances to have a sex with girls but I didn't do it because I'm too shy and I don't want to get embarrassed when they see my small penis. I know ...
A. 27 June 2010: 6 inches is average and as the motto goes "it's not how big it is, it's what you can do with it". There is no shame in being a virgin, but maybe go with a girl who you feel comfortable with and numerous friends of mine have said that they wished t... (read in full...)
How can I teach him to kiss better?!
Q. Does anybody have any experience with or know how I would aproach the subject with a guy I'm seeing on how to kiss better?!?! He just kisses so big, and I mean massive, I almost feel like I need to wipe my face with a towel after. No joke, it makes...
A. 27 June 2010: Haaa, I've had this experience before D: It's not nice. Try forceful tongue... So as not to knock his confidence, perhaps take the lead, he should follow. If not, perhaps tutor him in some way :L All I have to say on the matter.... (read in full...)
She was so horrible, why am I still in love with her?!
Q. Hi all, here's the info... I'm 27 this year, I split up with with my ex nearly 3 years ago, she is the mother of my child who I have a realitivley good relationship with. We got together when I was 18 and we split when I was about 25, loads of ...
A. 27 June 2010: It was a long relationship, perhaps one of the longest you've had and one of the most probable reasons you can't move on is because you have contact with her and maybe the spiteful comments are the things you play back and can't stop thinking about. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cyber cheated
Q. my gf and i were together for 3 years . we lived together one and half and two weeks ago i found out that she texting another guy literally cyber sex there met up last week nd they slept together .she confirmed it in last txt message she never knew ...
A. 27 June 2010: Not all women are as untrustworthy and clearly she is not worth it and you should perhaps cut your losses and move on. Surely if she was actually going to wait for you, she would make more of an effort to get back together and if she did "love" you, ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to stop looking at adult websites?
Q. Hi, sisters..We married last year after six month dating. He is a wonderful man who is hard worker and caring his family. But one thing is bothering me very much is he's sexual behavior. He having pantyhose addiction and want sex all the time. Many ...
A. 23 June 2010: A depressing woman? :/
Let's face it, most men, married or not, jerk off to porn. But by the sounds of it, you have picked up one with extra testosterone. I would suggest, not to sound tacky, but "kinky" scenarios that will arouse him more and get ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to stop looking at adult websites?
Q. Hi, sisters..We married last year after six month dating. He is a wonderful man who is hard worker and caring his family. But one thing is bothering me very much is he's sexual behavior. He having pantyhose addiction and want sex all the time. Many ...
A. 23 June 2010: A depressing woman? :/
Let's face it, most men, married or not, jerk off to porn. But by the sounds of it, you have picked up one with extra testosterone. I would suggest, not to sound tacky, but "kinky" scenarios that will arouse him more and get ... (read in full...)
Is it the right time to propose to him? Last time he said it was too early.
Q. I've been with him just over a year and one month. So far the main problem has been that his first ex (whom he loved like mad) wants him back. But he says he never go back to her and loves me alot. I want to propose to him but not sure how? Cause ...
A. 23 June 2010: You're a little ahead of yourself at the moment. "Big zero gravity moon steps" ~ friend's quote.
Personally, I think things should be done traditionally, but how often does a man know what you're thinking.
Perhaps you should think about moving i... (read in full...)
Sex cyber girlfriend
Q. Hello i'm just wondering is it wrong to have cyber sex with an older woman while i got a girlfriend. i've been cyber sexting her for a while now i masturbate to her this it feels good but am i doing a bad thing here and should i tell my girlfriend ...
A. 23 June 2010: I wouldn't consider it cheating as such, but it's still as Griffo says "adulterous".
Put yourself in the position of your girlfriend and decide how you would feel if she was doing it to you. As you are not meeting and I see not much harm in inte... (read in full...)
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