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writes:am in a relation ship for the past six years i do love my bf there isn't anything i would not do for him u see we have a long distance relation ship and everything was going well i would often save up for my vacation and spend it with him you see where he is he is illegal immigrant so therefore he cannot leave.the thing is about three years ago he had a daughter and i had to find out about this from my sister as you would imagine i was devasted but i did forgive him after that things were going well we were even talking about marriage etc the pro is about a month ago i had ask him to give me a call so i can discuss certain things with him he did not even take the time out to do it and this is not like him i got so angry and said things i should not of said i later then told him how sore i was for saying these things and he would not hear of it he is so stubborn and stuck with him self he even mentioned he does not love me the same often times he would just call me to say he loves me now he is saying he cannot go down that road now i would tell him i love him and he would just say byeit hurts me so much i want to know why is it he find it hard to forgive me knowing i was angry at the time i said these thingsi would try and he would just shown me my question is, is it over?should i just leave him and find someone betterwhat am i to do why is he being so unreasonable why can't he for give me the way i did him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): From what I have read, the situation between you and this guy have been very tricky and complicated. My advise to you.....move on, let it be! If now already it is so difficult, do not even consider marriage or a long lasting future with him. Find yourself a new boyfriend and leave this one alone. Stop contacting him! Good luck!
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 long distance relationships have a hard time of working out anyways and considering that hes saying he dousnt love you anymore most likely means you should give up. if you wanted it to work bad enough its possible to get him to forgive you but it causes me to wonder if your argument is the only reason hes staying away.
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