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Husband of 27 years regrets that he didn't have sex with other women!

Q.   I have been married for 27 years and a while ago my husband told me that the biggest regret of his life was that he hadn't had sex with more women. He had always lead me to believe that he had only been with me, but during this odd conversation I ...

A.   29 October 2010: It's normal that men see themselves as conquistadors with many beautiful women lying at their feet, looking out in adoration. And he might feel like he's missed out on some of the fun his mates had (or are still having) with the women. Do not ov... (read in full...)

Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!

Q.   Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch m...

A.   29 October 2010: Hi sweetie. He's not interested in you. What you describe there is somewhere between obligation sex (he does it because you expect him to) and rape (no foreplay / intimacy). If he hasn't applogised, I would seriously consider dumping that f.... (read in full...)

Should I leave him because he has slept with 9 girls? And when is the right time in a relationship to have sex?

Q.   iv been dating this guy for a month now.we havnt had sex yet because i told him i want to take things slowly.and just a few days ago i found out that he had sex with 9 girls and his only 21.that dosnt seem right to me.and confused if i should stay ...

A.   29 October 2010: If he had 9 - good for him - as long as they were not in a short timespan from one another. That means he is not consistent and just looking for a shagg. Think of your body as a temple. Do you think he has what it takes to go in? Does he respect ... (read in full...)

How do I get this woman to leave?

Q.   I am a 26-year-old female in a relationship with a woman for the past two and a half years, and it's not working out. She is an alcoholic, sometimes physically violent, very often abusive, insanely jealous. She moved into my flat about a year and a ...

A.   29 October 2010: Hi darling, There's one way to do it. have a talk with her and tell her if she does not move by the end of the week, you will be donating all of her clothes to charity and changing the locks. You will see her out soon enough after that. I... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my separated man and wait for my happy end, or hit the road after 2 years?

Q.   I'm in a bit of a bother here. I'm 26 turning 27 in 6 days and for the past 2 years I have been in love with Ed. Married. We got caught out in August 2008 after 2 months of sneaking around and she has gone mental on him. Calling the police, sayi...

A.   29 October 2010: I don't pretend I am innocent in this whole affair. I fell in love and it messed up one person's life. The problem is - if he was really happy - would he still look around? My point of wonder is the following: If I knew that my hb cheated on me, I... (read in full...)

This situation is so confusing, I don't know what to think anymore!

Q.   hi, i'm a bit confused on how to put this because it's got my head spinning really. i apollogize in advance if i sound a little stupid. for almost a year, myself and my ex from 2 years ago would occassionally meet up and do 'stuff' together...

A.   28 October 2010: My advice is - never reheat a day's old chicken soup. it will taste sour. There must be a reason why you two broke up and if they are still valid, you should keep with them. Crossing the sexual line with a partner made you more involved than yo... (read in full...)

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