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Should I keep up some level of hope for him?

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Question - (21 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Let me start off by saying that I have had feelings for this guy for around two years. It's pathetic, I know. Everyone has told me to let him go and that he's not ever going to feel the same about me. But I can't help but feel that there's some reason that I'm not able to let him go. He is everything that I've ever wanted and it's hard for me to deny that.

He's a strong Christian and the place that we first met was at our church. From the first time I saw him, I was amazed by how he gave his all fro God and was also saving himself for marrige like I am. After we'd been talking and flirting for quite some time, I gave him my phone number (through someone else stupidly). He never actually got it and my friend knew all along.

Well after that (and quite a long time of my avoiding him), he got his first girlfriend and I dated my first boyfriend. Both of these relationships lasted around 3 months and I honestly wished I was with him the entire time.

Sorry to include so much stuff, but I don't know what would help someone in telling me why I can't let him go. And should I keep some level of hope for him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011):

I was in your sitation and never said anything to the guy I liked.

Now he's married.

GO GET HIM!!

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