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Should I keep holding on to him when he's with this other girl?

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Question - (4 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I dated this guy for a year and a half. We broke up and hadn't talked for a while when he started texting me, he has a girlfriend and has only been dating her for 2 months. He always calls me and texts me even when he is with her, He tells me that he wants to get back together with me it's just a trust thing with our past. I'm not over him but I'm wondering if I should keep holding onto him when he is with this other girl???

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntHello.

I now it is difficult to be in this situation, but you must remember that you did break up for a reason, then he has another GF, who he is still with, sorry to say you were right, when in your letter you said, 'he is with this other girl' it would be a bad idea for you to take his offer up,you really dont want to go through all the heart ache again, you deserve better that that, it is time for you to move on and find a boyfriend without this problem.

Hope this helps you.

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (4 November 2007):

lilgirly agony aunthey,

maybe this guy is only playing with you BE CAREFUL.

and if you belive that he loves you ask him to leave the other girl , cause it makes no sence him going out with her if he loves you.

BE CAREFUL he might be another player.

good luck and take care and keep us updated byeXXX

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