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Should I keep going back to him or end it for good?

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Question - (6 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *osiee writes:

my boyfriend keeps getting jealous over two of my ex's. he feels they are better than him in very way, and no matter how many times i tell him i love him he always treats me bad, calling me a slag and saying he regrets being with me, but then he always says he didnt mean it and we everything is fine for a week, then it starts again. am i a fool to keep going back to him? i love him more than anything, but is it rely worth it? i dont know what to do anymore.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010):

My vote is to leave him. You don't need that crap. When you get with someone, you have to accept that their past is what made them into the person you love. You can't hold it agains them.

There are plenty of guys out there that will be interested in you. You're still young, way to young to deal with an a-hole like this.

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

Blod agony auntYou can't go on with a relationship like this. It isn't fair on you. What you do depends how committed you are to him and how much you want your relationship to work. He has issues, more than likely with himself, so staying with him would mean that both of you would have to work at it. So I'd say it's down to how much he means to you.

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A female reader, Tasmanian devil United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

Tasmanian devil agony auntIt depends, do you really want a relationship with this guy, if hes always treats you bad, why would you love him? I think you need to ask yourself that and if the answer is he has a wonderful personality or something, than keep at it. But if not, then he isn't worth it and you deserve better.

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A male reader, manperson101 United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

He sounds ridiculously insecure! You have to pursuade him that he's the one for you and no matter what the other guys had you like him the best. If he still can't accept that and still mistreats you then hes got some serious emotional problems so just end it... for good! At 16/17 you don't need to invest so much into a relationship, especially if hes an insecure nightmare of a boyfriend!

Good luck!

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