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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a grown woman who feels like a teenager (with no disrespect intended) addressing my question. The guy I dated 3yrs back is my age. He was the first time I ever truly understood the meaning of love. The feeling was mutual. Too to good to be true is what we used to say about each other. We knew eachother for two years before dating and dated for two years after becoming involved. Our relationship drifted apart during a time I was dealing with other things but to this day we still remain friends. He has always kept in touch via text mostly and on a rare ocassion we hang out which is completely innocent. I wonder what he thinks of us in the present with just a kiss. It's not as easy as it may sound to simply just ask him. I don't know how to approach it. We saw eachother recently and just passed time watching a movie. Here's the thing. When I was with him I wanted to kiss him or visa versa nothing more. He has other female friends, not like me so this makes it difficult to know if I'm just another friend for sure. If he does have feelings they would have to be nervous feelings like mine. The next time I see him I would like to kiss him or him to kiss me but how to go about that without coming across as a hormone driven kiss. If only I knew how to approach this (believe it or not) awkward situation as I know I'll find the answer I'm searching for in the kiss alone. What would you do?
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Next time you are together, suggest taking a walk. While walking, get close and just casually take his hand, while in his personal space, you will pick up the vibe as to whether there is a physical connection or not. You will be taking a step toward him, he can either take the next step, or keep it where it is and still be friends and comfortable.
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