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writes:Hi there hope you can offer some sound advice. went out with a guy for about 6 months we had a great relationship, amazing, in fact. However, I knew he was off travelling for a year on his own and we tried not to let it get serious but it did! It was awful when he left and I couldn't really stop him as it had been planned for a long time. I was not in a position to go away either as I needed to stay in the uk. Anyway a year on and he is back and we are both single. I really like him still and even tho we kept in touch regularly now he has been back a few weeks, we don't seem to really talk much now. We saw each other and got on really well. He doesn't really seem to contact me tho. He has had to take a job away from where he wants to live just to get money so in the week he is far away. He will be moving close to me soon in a few months. I live with his best mate and we are all a close group of friends. Just wondered how I should go about getting close to him, should I just go with the flow and see what happens? Thanks everyone. xxx
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reader, duce00  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 I think you are on the right track. Go with the flow. Sure, talk to him honestly when you get a good chance but it seems best not to push anything right now because it appears that his priorities are elsewhere. All that may change and I may be wrong too, but I think you would be better off all around seeking a man who is more available.
Best of luck!
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