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Why did my ex add me on Facebook when he has just got married?

Q.   my ex fiance who i split with badly 6 years ago contacted me on facebook the other night requesting friendship. i thought this weird as ive only just got on there-we have no mutual friends so therefore confused to get this email. anyway ou...

A.   30 July 2009: its a facebook add... it doesnt mean anything.. i add everyone i know no matter what. doesnt me he has a thing for you thats totally normal... (read in full...)

Older, "obese" guy Fetish

Q.   Hey, I'm a 16 year old female (I am the legal age of consent in my state). I have this...fetish...for older guys. Not only older guys, kind of...fat...older guys. (around the ages of 26-38) Is it weird? I haven't told ANYONE. I don't think I ever ...

A.   30 July 2009: yeahh lol.. that definitely is weird.... (read in full...)

My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.

Q.   'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!...

A.   15 May 2009: it's like saying you're fat plus saying you're the girl no one would want to have sex with. harsh stuff, i wouldn't talk to him again... (read in full...)

Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?

Q.   Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...

A.   15 May 2009: well first off you're thirteen. you definatly should not be having sex. but assuming you have gotten that talk before (because it's right, you really should not be having sex at thirteen because chances are you'll get pregnant or an std before ... (read in full...)

30 year old guy has never dated.. how do I get started?

Q.   I am 30 years old and have very rarely dated. I am a brain tumor survivor and had to have all my hormones replaced artificially so I went through puberty late. Of course, I have never had sex, never even been in a romantic situation yet. How do I ...

A.   4 May 2009: make sure you get started with someone who knows your situation and accepts it. They'll be more leaniant and know why you might not know how to act in romantic situations. Have confidence even if you have no idea what you're doing. confidence ... (read in full...)

FWB or more?

Q.   i was naive and had never been in a proper relationship before, so when a gorgeous, charming boy starting showing an interest in me, i forgot all my morals and started having sex with him pretty soon. In hindsight i would never have done this as its ...

A.   3 May 2009: he seems really sweet, just tell him ask him which he wants, full on relationship or just sex if he says just sex, leave... (read in full...)

Should I just count my losses and give up?

Q.   If a girl doesn't call or text does that mean she doesn't want you around any more? This girl and I have been talking and hanging out for about five months and we really hit it off but then all of a sudden she just stopped. She no longer calls or ...

A.   1 May 2009: well it's most likely something that happened when you two were together or something you said, but anytime i send short, uninterested texts to a guy i dont really want to talk to it's becuase he's not fun to talk to like i talked to this guy... (read in full...)

For the boys: Innocent or not innocent? Tall or short? Athletic or not?

Q.   i want to know what the guys out there look for in a girl.. do you (guys) like girls that look more innocent or not innocent? do you prefer girls that are tall? or short? do you prefer girls that are athletic or not athletic?...

A.   1 May 2009: i dont mean look innocent as in put on a look i mean people call me cute more than hot and they say i look innocent, and i'm wondering if that's a good or a bad thing in a guy's opinion and almost 5'9"... is that too tall?... (read in full...)

Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ?

Q.   I went to see this topic and i saw this answer on its site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-year-old-virgin.html Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ? Is what he said true ? ...

A.   1 May 2009: People lie and have different opinions on what losing your virginity really means. Oral? Intercourse? etc. In my middle school about two or three couples had done "stuff" but no official (intercourse). People lost their virginity until high schoo... (read in full...)

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