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writes:Hey I will go straight to the point me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years about a year and half ago things started to get stressful between us so we broke up. He started to see someone else and got her pregnant they broke up and me and my Bf got back together about 8 months ago. My Bf is an amazing father his son is now 5 months old. I have only seen him twice my question is should I develop a relationship with his son (I have nothing against the child ) or should I stay completely away?? To be honest I think it would make my Bf happier if I did He doesn't push the subject or anything but I just sense it! He has made comments like I should go over to his place and help him baby sit (they don't leave together but sometimes he takes care of him while the mother is at work) because I'm so great with kids. And he has texted me pic's of the baby! So should I get close to him or not?? PS: Bear in mind that this is the men I want to be with and we are planning on starting a family of our own someday!
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 If you truly love this guy then you need to accept his son and him come as a package.
It really depends how much you want to get involved with the guy, but if you want a fulfilled relationship then yes you need to bond with his son too.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 If you love him , you should love his son even if he is not your son. He comes in a package . His son is an extension of him. You cannot chose and pick what you like.
You should not allow your bias or prejudiced feelings stand in the way of loving his son.
Love is a beautiful thing . It can forgive and can overcome all obstacles.
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