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Should I help him anyway?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

So I have a guy friend who's need failing some classes. Well I think it's because he's not really doing the work and he's freaking out because he might have to be held back (my grades better then his). He asked me if I could help him, I told hm all he just need to do is actually do the work and pay attention in class and quit being a slacker. Now he's all mad at me for not helping him. Should I help him anyway?

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A female reader, Analdia United States +, writes (15 November 2008):

Analdia agony auntno if you don't want to help him and if he doesn't want to help himself then let him fail because your real friends will respect your feelings and by him getting mad when you tell him the right thing makes him unfair to you.only help him if he at least listens to you first.if he doesn't listen to what you told him then there is no reason to help him.make sure he pays attention in class or he will fail!

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (15 November 2008):

yum yum agony auntWell it depends on your personality I guess. I think you should help him. What goes around, comes around. Help him if you can. Maybe one day in your life you might need help for something and I am sure that you would appriciate if somebody would help you even if you did not really deserve the help.

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