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Should I have stayed in a confusing relationship or did I do the right thing?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A female United States age , *osieposie writes:

I was in a relationship for 2 and half years with a man I love deeply he was always running away for weeks at a time and then return to say he wanted me he even called me two days before Christmas 2 years and said he is going to be seeing someone else and about 3 weeks later wanted me back again so I went back he moved in with me and we had a great 3 months together and he moved out and moved back in moved back out wanting to be single again and then I moved in with him he got a ring and asked me to marry him I said yes but the subject never came up. All the time I was with him he always was on dating sites and would visit them so he wanted me to move out and I did but then I would go to his house and spend days there and we had a great time together and I would leave for a couple of weeks and go to his house for days and he treated so good and sex was great

I am in my late 59 and he is 57 and was getting tired of him always being confused in what he wanted so I just sat him down and wanted to know where this relationship was going and he said he didn't know that he missed me when I was gone but ready for me to leave in a few days I told him I wasnt getting any younger and I wanted to be with him all the time and he and I wanted to find someone to be with all the time and he said he understood but wouldn't not talk to me anymore about the relationship and got up went to bed and I slept on the couch that night and go up and left the next day and I sent an e-mail to him telling him I love him and I hated him being on those dating sites and I could live with him or without him then I tried to call him and he wouldn;t not answer my call. He is mad for me ending the relationship. Should I have stayed in a confused relationship or did I do the right thing?

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntEven that whole story made my head spin a little, I think though, you definately done the right thing, it certainly wasn't fair how he had been treating you. So I say good on you for ending it, and that you should go and find that person who will treat you like a queen, cos everyone deserves that :)

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