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Should I have a relationship with my cousin?

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Question - (10 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, *shilko writes:


Hello my name is Salah i made this account to let loose a sercet i have keept from my famliy or 3 months...

Ive had sex with my cousin.

It's werid i mean now i look back to it i seems ook i mean i have feeling for her she dose to but i dont make her feeling go futher because i know deep down its wrong and inhumane but i cant stop looking at her and admiring her

I started in the summer i dont like boasting and resent people who show off but i was slimp and fit and being quite musclar with a light tan as i do althletics and fencing also ive been to morroco as thats were we were meeting famliy after i came back my fencing mentor told me there was a local competion and that he wanted me to compete i said yes and we got to work after a feww weeks the competwtion came and i came second palce out of 10 people it was a great achivement but i had work to do so i went home and worked hard a few relatives came over to celebrate my achivement and mum and dad went out to the local restarunt to celebrate i stayed home as i had work to do and they told my cousin Sarah to look after me

thats the night we went to far i went to my room turned my computer on and started working on my English essay and had history homework to do so it kept me busy for and hour and a half shee came into my room and i said hello she said hello too i look at her andshe blew me away i emidatly though of how pretty she was and she probally had a boyfriend or soming i was 14 and she was 16 i stood up fumbing with my word and the next thing i hear her say

i like you and she starts touching me up and i pull back she say dont worry and the next thing i know were kissing and after that having sex on my bed we slept and i cant hide the truth i enjoyed it after a while i told her to put her cloths on and she did we had a other smooch and we were on the verge of do it again when my mum rang she was a little dizzy and dazzied so she never noticed sarah and me coming from the staris very happy

it still haunts me but i wave it way i love sarah and she loves me we talk to each other and were arranging to see again im very anxois to what if we have sex i love her but i have to crush it a little so that i don't make it obvious i dont mind kissing and touching each other up only she has to start fisrt but no sex




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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010):

In a word 'Yes". Kissing cousins is not unusual. I would suggest that you guys stay in a private relationship for a year before coming out to your family. You want to make sure that its not just lust from attraction thats pulling you guys together. Make sure that both of you are strong enough to handle when you decide toi let the truth comes out. I hope that everything works out for you and your cousin. My cousin and I have been in a relationship for 3 years.

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A male reader, steph007 Hungary +, writes (11 December 2010):

Well, this happens. If she is a first cousin then you should not continue this relationship. If she is a second cousin then it is a "borderline" thing. Anyhow, I think it does not matter who is the person you have sex with, you should keep it secret. And this may be increasingly true for Sarah.

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A female reader, bernergirl United States +, writes (11 December 2010):

bernergirl agony auntI don't know where to start....this is wrong. I say that as clear as I can because I don't want you to be confused about this message. You are still very young and impressionable. But there are going to be situations and these situations are going to determine the type of person you are going to be in life. I understand you think she is lovely, but you have to stand strong, just like you know theft is wrong, murder is wrong, rape is wrong, you have to think in that extreme circumstances (even though I think she took advantage of you) you still have to be able to say no. No means No. This is along the lines of incest. And depending on what state your in, if 16 is recognized as an adult in most cases she can be convicted for statutory rape. I hope you find your way out of this. You can find another girl who is much better for you. Good Luck!

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