Should I go with the older man who I feel could take care of me, or the younger one who I feel like I'm insecure talking to??

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I have two guys who I am chatting with on FB and I am interested in both. One is 18 (I'm 19) and the other is 34. I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me for 2 years...so I'm used to the guy being older than me. I feel a lot more comfortable talking to the 34 year old and thinking about meeting him, and when I talk to the 18 year old I feel like I'm talking to a child and I feel insecure (like the relationship is "cold") They are both just as persistant, but I don't know which one to pursue. I don't want to lead either one on. I like them both just as much. My parents would rather I go out with the 18 year old. So, should I go with the older man who I feel could take care of me, or the younger one who I feel like I'm insecure talking to??

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