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As everybody knows, everybody has worries, problems, and concerns as we are all human, including me!

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Married and hopelessly lonely

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??...

A.   5 February 2010: walk away hun, hes done it before he'll do it again... (read in full...)

How can I make him pay me more attention?

Q.   So my boyfriend of 10 months have been having some probems he does not really pay me that much attention, he spends all his time with his friends playing video games and such and comes home at around 2 in the morning from their house ( we live ...

A.   5 February 2010: i was with someone for 10 months and left really unapreciated so i cheated on him whilst i was away on holiday but came back and told him that i wasn't in love with him anymore, i wish i hadn't done that! You need to sit down and discuss things w... (read in full...)

The Professor crush, what to do?

Q.   Well I have a crush on my professor and I'm not sure if he feels the same, or what I should do about it. It started last semester I was in his political science class. Watching him teach with such passion sparked my interest. My feelings grew wh...

A.   18 December 2009: OK, this man is not as stupid as I thought. He knows that you have a crush on him, and is just trying to humour you. Why would a 40+ man want a MUCH younger girl? The thought sickens me. You need to keep away from this man and be with someone ... (read in full...)

Every time I have sex with my husband I think of this man

Q.   I am married and I got acquainted to another man since 2004 and finally this acquaintance turns into love. We met several times but we never had sexual intercourse. I was so afraid that this will turns wrong if I go in sexual relationship with ...

A.   18 December 2009: Okay, you must obviously not be in love with your husband if you are getting aquainted with other men obviously. Just think of the damage you would cause by having an affair with another man. Not only he would be hurt but also you. The guilt w... (read in full...)

Should I give this other girl a chance even though I love my ex?

Q.   I love my ex. She says she loves me but everytime I think we are gonna have a chance she goes "on a date" with someone else. Of course that ends it for us but then she comes crawling back to me saying she wants only me, saying everything I want to ...

A.   18 December 2009: okay, your ex is saying shes in love with you etc but yet only wants to be friends? Is this not too different pieces of information? She is obviously not IN LOVE with you if she keeps going on dates with other men. She is only coming running ... (read in full...)

Can anyone explain my erection difficulties?

Q.   Hi, I am 20years old male, I have a serious issue which has started recently like 5months ago, The problem is that my penis stands up in the start such as in the foreplay but right after some time it goes down and then does not stand up. And I ...

A.   18 December 2009: If i was you, i would get yourself to the GP asap. This could be a minor thing...but also something major. It would be in your best interests to get yourself checked out incase it is something serious. ... (read in full...)

Is my compulsion to make women orgasm an addiction?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man and I think I'm addicted to making women orgasm. When I'm with a woman I'm intimate with, I just crave making her cum. It really turns me on, but I actually feel almost compelled to do it. I love, LOVE going...

A.   18 December 2009: You could be a possible sex addict...or just really enjoy making a woman feel pleasured. Either way i would go to a GP to check that you are okay. ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her again or let life go on?

Q.   there is this girl that i like and i told her on facebook she said that she had a boyfriend but im not sure if its true or not i see her almost every week at church and whenever i see her i feel like almost crying. i know that its cheesy but its ...

A.   18 December 2009: Okay you are 13, what do you want a girlfriend for? There are much interesting things you can do than be with a girl, trust me. If this girl has a boyfriend...leave them to it, your feelings may break them up if you tell her how you feel. Yo... (read in full...)

Will I always be alone without a relationship?

Q.   I’m turning 19 soon, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’ve never been kissed. I’ve never been on a date. I’ve never even had a guy express interest. I’ve never even heard rumors that any guys might be interested. I didn’t attend any school dances, ...

A.   18 December 2009: Hi, there. It seems to me like you haven't been 'getting out' there enough. Also if you say your friends are busy without their significant others... get some who are available. Try to fit in with a different crowd. We've all been there when w... (read in full...)

Can you slow down a whirl wind romance?

Q.   I met this girl I'm dating on one of the matching websites and from the very first date we were amazed at our compatibility and our attraction for each other. We've been dating almost 4 months now. However, in the 4 months we've dated it's gone ...

A.   18 December 2009: okay first off, you need to tell her how YOU really feel. Even if she's scared of comitting it has to be out in the open! 1. Yes, your coming out of what you call 'the honeymoon period', this is a HUGE challenge on the relationship and when it ... (read in full...)

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