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writes:I havent dated much in life , but ive had a couple of dates with an old friend and we havent given each other our phone numbers yet. we communicate via social media . It might sound a bit strange but should i offer my phone number to him ? hes a very confident guy and i thought he would have given his number sooner but im still waiting should i make the move ? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 March 2017):
 Yeah I would ask for his number or offer yours. Nothing to lose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2017): If you've already had a couple of dates and you are communicating via social media, then it sounds like everything is going well.
So, just leave things as they are. He can contact you when he needs to via social media. When he wants your phone number, he will ask for it.
Basically, men like to be the ones who do the chasing, and they don't like to be chased. So, if you offered your phone number to him, he might see it as you chasing him. So don't risk it. Sit back, let him do the running and enjoy your dates with him. He will ask for your phone number eventually, but don't worry if it's not right now.
I hope it all goes well for the two of you.
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