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*ennej
writes:so my first year in college i met this guy who i really never thought nothing of. we became real good friends and started to hangout every weekend or so. he was tall , dark, and handsome and i thought to myself "wow i have one cute friend"... so i told him that i would introduce him to some of my single lady friends . which i did. he later on will tell me that he wasn't interested in any of them because the person he was interested in was me.so we began to date and hangout every weekend he met my family and friends and i met his as well. we dated for about 6 months until my "so called friends got involved" and made our relationship fall apart so we took a break...While on our break i found out he had established a relationship with one of our "so called friends" during the time we had been dating. after his relationship had failed he tried coming back to me but i didnt take him back i just took him back as a friend. It's been a year and we are still friends and he still wants to establish a relationship with me but im not sure i could ever trust him again. should i give him a second chance?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 January 2011):
 How did this so called friend interfere with your relationship? Guess he wasn't telling the truth in the first place when he said he wasn't interested in one of your friends. It takes 2 to tango, he could have brushed off this friend.
If you can't trust him then no. You need to be able to trust him first before getting in a relationship with him. I don't see how you can be friends with someone you don't trust, you must be keeping him at arm's length. Keep it as friends, there's no telling if history will repeat itself.
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