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writes:Me and My Boyfriend we have been together 2years. I do Love him, but there is the Guy I Really, Really Like(Jon*), Me and Him are Really close Mates, and One of our Mates(Sam*), turned round and told me that Jon Fancies me. Sam and I share everything and he would not lie to me, he is to honest. Now I feel Really confused and i Don't want to dump my Boyfriend Before Christmas, it will destroy him and I love him so much, and i don't want to hurt him, im not cheating on him or anything like that but the main Problem is - I Fancy Sam and Jon, I don't know weather to leave it till after Xmas and Dump My Boyfriend (as im not gonna see him over christmas, he is at his dads in London) and im in MAnchester with my mum, and just leave until JAnuary, when we go back to College! What do i do?Love ChelseaP.S Merry Christmas all!*Not real names!
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reader, office~doctor +, writes (21 December 2006):
okay im not in favor for the whole dumping thing but if i were to choose i would choose after christmas, before christmas then he wouldnt have fun on chrismas and after christmas then oh well at least he has the whole year ahead of him, but if your looking for a answer for the guy thing if you love him then you should take a while to re-assess your goals, spend some time away from this other guy to see if you fancy him after a week of not seeing him or so on, and if you do then oh well all good things come to an end.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Well Xmas is comming soon but before the whole gift exchange you should just do it. It might make him upset, since he likes you but you need to do what feels right. If you love him this much should you dump him for a crush or two, think and plan before you do anything. And If you break up with him don't get with anyone right away it will make it worse, for him than it could be. Good Luck.
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