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female
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36-40,
*zmommy01
writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and suddenly he wants a threesome. Its been talked about before but never this seriously. Ive been involved in one (MMF) in my single days and he says that it bothers him that ive gotten to experience this but not him. Im not comfortable (aka sickened)however at seeing him with another girl. Should i just suck it up and do it or stick with what I feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Never do something you are uncomfortable with just to please your man......EVER This could be the end of your relationship if you are unable to get the visual of him enjoying another woman out of your head. Leave the past behind.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
here's my advice to you. if you dont want to do it then dont. who cares if you tried it and he hasnt. thats not your fault. i wouldnt do it.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 How odd that he didn't want to do a threesome with another guy...
You know, people write in all the time about threesomes. It's always the guy that wants the threesome, and he always wants to be with two girls! Tell him that you'll be happy to participate in a threesome if he gets Brad Pitt.
I say - Your body, your rules. Why participate in something that you don't even want to in order to please him? What's next? I think that it will open the door to him being even less satisfied sexually in the future, always seeking some new thing (or woman). If you have already told him that you had a threesome in the past, tell him that you were young and foolish, that you're happy that he's your only partner and he's more than enough man for you. Then tell him No.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 hahaha peoriaman that is genius
If you don't want to do it, don't do it! Simple as that! If you told him you wanted to place a large vegetable about his anatomy do you think he'd let you just cos that's what you want?
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