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writes:I am a woman of 44 and have been in love with a woman at work for 15 months. We have become good friends and do lots of emailing, some of which are quite flirty. She is straight and believes that I am - my main relationships have been with men. It's got to the stage where i am bursting to say something - I already make it very explicit by, e.g. telling her how intoxicating and wonderful she is (in email - i'm too shy to say anything too explicit in her company, but I reckon it must be obvious. I am terrified of losing her friendship, and just do not know what to do. I feel that i could risk everything, but know also how devastated i would be if her response was to cool our friendship. Any advice would be most appreciated. D
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks pvt guy! Your answer made me laugh - the end bit at least!
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reader, xsweet_girlx +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Don't do anything youre going to regret!Why not just keep it quiet if you get closer then great you can then tell her how you feel. If you go in all guns blazing and tell her straight out she will most probably move back, I know im only young but it happened to a friend of mine at school and i suppose its the same situation. They were such close friends and one day she told her thinking everything would now lay in to place but it went the total opposite Talk it out if this does happen DO NOT keep it bottled uphope this helps
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