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Should I congratulate him on a great performance?

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Question - (25 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

OK so last night I went to go see a concert version of "Les Miserables School Addition". It was spectacular and everyone sounded AMAZING! I knew two of the people who were in it (sort of) and today at school I told one guy's little brother to tell him that he sounded great, and he said he would. When school got out I was walking to the band room to get my instrument and I passed the other guy. I have seen him around, and he is like famous at school because of his voice and kind nature. I wanted to congratulate him on his performance, but was afraid it would be weird since he's a popular senior and I'm just a nothing freshman. So I didn't, and now I feel terrible because I missed my chance. He was sooooooooo good! I wish I could have told him so. Do you think I should still try? What if he thinks I'm hitting on him? Would it still have the same effect two days after the performance? Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010):

hii...

go for it, hunny!!! like the other two ladies before me have said, "everybody likes compliments," and "it will probably make his day." and unless he's the most entirely conceited jerk in the whole entire world, i highly doubt that he's going to assume that you're "hitting on him" with that comment. even though the performance has already come and gone, i'm sure that he would still greatly appreciate your feedback.

good luck, and God bless!!!

~sarsar~

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (26 October 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntIt's never too late to tell someone that you loved their performance. It will probably make his day! Go for it, sweet thing! Good luck. :o)

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (26 October 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntTell him anyway. Everybody likes compliments!

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