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Should I chase her and get her back?..... I need an outside perspective!

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Question - (31 January 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 36-40, *ODman writes:

I need some outside help in would greatly appreciated it.

There is this girl that i dated 3 years back, but I have always kept in contact with her over the years. And now she is gone. i don't know if i should go chase something im not defiantly sure about.

Mine and Her past: I broke up with her for a different girl 3 years ago, but I was still talking to her when I was with the other girl. Then she went off in showed all the texts I sent to her to my girlfriend at that time. After that we stop talking for a year. I did try in fix what I did, with my girlfriend at that time, for a year, but it didn’t end up working out.

In the past year we have talk off in on why I was a way at school, when I would come home to visit family we would hang out and I would stay the night with her. She would always want to talk about getting in to a relationship with me. But I always told her I was not ready for one, I had to much going on in my life. But I don’t know if I was saying that stuff just because I was afraid of getting hurt are not feeing the same way she did about me, our I just wanted to be single. She told me a month ago that she loved me and I didn’t know what to say. Because I don’t know if I love her, our if it’s the past of what she did showing the text’s to my ex girlfriend. I just moved back home from school. And now she has a new boyfriend she has been with for a week. I don’t know if I should chase her in get in to a relationship with her. I don’t know if it’s fear of being alone are if I really do love her and want her in my arms. I cant stop thing of her and if I made the right choice…… I’M LOST

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