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41-50,
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writes:My gf of 6 years broke up with me about a year ago this time. That lasted for all of 2 months or so and she returned saying that she was just going through changes and she felt kinda trapped. She has since felt horrible about doing the break and what she put me through for 2 months. At the same time I have told her that I do have my reservations about our relationship, but im working on the whole trusting her issue. I do not want to feel this way and at the same time expect her work hard and gain back the trust(if that makes sense). This has caused an issue because she becomes frustrated in not really knowing what to do. Several arguements have happend surround different issues and she has said that it feels like we are getting no where, yet she is still with me???? Im not perfect and I do make mistakes but I have told her that Im working on things and trying to improve communications between us. Although she says that she loves me and wants to be with me, when things hit a bump she always seems pessimistic about our future. I love her so much and would practically do anything for her...but I feel like she wants out but doesn't want to hurt me again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Sit down and ask her if she really wants to be with you. If she seems very flustered and refuses to say a very straightforward answer you are going to have some problems. If she truly loves you she'll want to make it work as much as you do.
Just talk with her and be completly honest about how you feel.
There is NOTHING sexier than a man who is open about his emotions and is willing to sit down and talk to get things right again.
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