Should I break it off with him or keep going along with what he wants?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this boy, lets call him Scott and we dated for 6 months back in high school (which was a year ago) and I broke up with him in June because we didn't seem like "boyfriend girlfriend" just more like friends, and he was really crushed but we stayed decently close through out summer and then we both ended up going to the same college. Slowly, our relationship built back up again and now we are at the stage of dating and doing everything as if we were boyfriend and girlfriend but he says he doesn't want to put a title on it. We have been in this weird limbo relationship now for about 4 months. We talk all the time, date, kiss... and we both tell each other how much we like each other. One time we were talking about "us" and he said if us being in a "titled" relationship is what would make me stay with him he would do it, but he would prefer not to. And of course i wouldn't make him do that if he didn't want to. My friends have talked to him and asked him why he doesn't want a relationship and he says there is no other girls or doesn't want to just hook up with other people but he just doesn't want to put a title on it. I just don't know what to do! So my question is: Do you think that Scott is hiding something and i should break it off with him, or keep going along with what he wants?? I do really really like him....

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