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writes:I am interested in a celebrityI only see him at events but i talk to.him on social media everyday.I met him at an.event and he knew who i was and some details about me, is it okay that im interested in him?I write him letters sometime too, is it possible to.let him know.im not just interested in him as a celebrity?shoukd i just try becoming famous to get close to him? ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (22 August 2018):
 Oh, I forgot to add...
If you keep going down this path you MIGHT be regarded as a stalker at some point... is that what you want people to think of you?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (22 August 2018):
Why would anyone go through ALL that effort of becoming famous for ONE guy?
That makes no sense!
You talk to him over social media, he knows you are a fan and hasn't seem to take further interest so I think you being "famous" or not has little to do with it.
Also... becoming famous in not something that happens by snapping your fingers and wishing you were famous.
I get that you have a crush on this guy, but in reality you have no idea who he really is. You see his public person and that is it.
Maybe you need to ground yourself a little bit in reality. Focus on what you would like to do with your life and then work on those dream and goals... Catching a man's attention should be your primary goal in life.
Seriously.
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reader, N91  +, writes (22 August 2018):
 And what would you plan on doing exactly to become famous?
If you have spoken to him in person and you speak daily on social media and he’s never shown a romantic interest then I’d say it’s pretty clear that you’d be wasting your time trying to become famous with the primary goal of dating this guy.
Many celebrities date people that aren’t famous and I think if he was interested in you romantically then he would have no problem asking you out even though your names not up in lights. I’d say he’s just being polite to his fans. Get the fascination out of your head, it’s not going anywhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2018): You've met him and he didn't offer you any means of personal-contact. I don't think he's interested. You're a fan, and maybe that's as far as it goes.
If your only interest in him is to idolize and adore him for being a celebrity; I think he has met enough women who's only interest in him is for that reason.
I've always judged whether people were interested in getting to know me by their requesting some means of contact when we're together in-person. That's the golden opportunity.
Don't you think all women tell him they're not interested in him as a celebrity? I think he'd make some attempt to try to get to know you aside from your letters and messages. There must be dozens of women doing and thinking exactly what you are.
Try to meet guys that don't require as much trouble to get to know and date. You have so much competition from other fans trying to date a celebrity. Someone with very little time, and too many other women after him.
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