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writes:Over this past weekend, I saw that my boyfriend has been texting his ex girlfriend over the past couple of months. The messeges were nothing explicit but just friendly conversation. The last message he got from her was on his birthday last month and he wrote back saying that he often wonders how's she doing and to keep in touch with him. I confronted him on this but he says that the last time he's heard from her was on his birthday. Should I be worried that they still occasionally are in contact with each other or am I being driving myself crazy over nothing? We talked about this and I apoligized to him for going into his phone and everthing is okay now between us.
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reader, lamo  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 stop it if he told you and they have not texted in ages and it is just friend dont push him. check his phone time to time but not all the time. untill there is somethink to worry about than its fine.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 He may just be being polite and asking her how things are, it doesn't necessarily mean that he fancies her again however he does need to know that you feel very insecure about this. Ask him how he'd feel if it were you texting YOUR ex, maybe this will give him a better idea of how you feel.
You could also say to him would he mind you looking at your phone from time to time just to get reassurance that everything is okay? If he has nothing to hide then he shouldn't mind at all. Let him know you just love him to bits and do trust him but would hate for her to come between you both.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): I wouldn't worry about it if it is just occasionally especially like a birthday. I text my ex on special days, and I am not trying to get back with him. Don't worry!
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