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writes:My boyfriend used to talk about his female friends and other girls a lot and I asked him to tone it down please. Now he doesn't mention them much and often doesn't tell me when he's hanging out with his female friends. His two closest female friends have repeatedly cheated on their partners. I'm out of town at the moment and I know he's been spending a decent amount of 1 on 1 time with these two girls (not because he has told me, a mutual friend told me). Should I be concerned about him spending time with girls who seem to have low morals and not telling me about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 November 2014):
 How can you not be concerned is more the question. However, "low morals" is a subjective definition, What is trashy to some folks is normal to others, my point is; be more certain of your definition as in meet them for yourself rather than let someone else define them and their character. Rumors are just that.For all you know they might be perfectly fine people. Don't always believe the negative description of others because they may be wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2014): Yes. BIG RED FLAG.
Sorry, but if he continues, it will only be a matter of time until you have a cheating boyfriend on your hands. :(
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (8 November 2014):
You need to make up your mind. You aren't happy when he talks about them, and you aren't happy when he doesn't.
Have you even met these girls or attempted to be nice to them or friends with them? Or have you just treated them like competition from the start?
I would be concerned if I were you. Not because your boyfriend might be friends with "sluts", but because you two can't seem to communicate openly and there appears to be underlying jealousy issues.
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