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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Looking for advice. Im a male with a female friend. She needs a roommate near our university and is considering me. Problem is i gave feelings for her (we flirt a lil but nothing serious). So i dunno if being her roomate is a good idea. Since i might end up liking her in the future. Wat are ur opinions? Thanks!
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reader, MrWombat  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 If a girl is going to have sex with you, she decides on it in the first few seconds. You have been friendzoned. This girl will never, never have sex with you. Ever. That's the reality, you need to face it.
Sharing a room with her means watching her bring home a parade of boyfriends, listening to her sex them in the next room, and holding in your outrage and hurt when she tells you more than you need to know about it. For months on end.
Do not do this. Just don't. Don't share with a girl anyway (they will take advantage of you without remorse), but particularly don't do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): No this is not a good idea. I was in this situation, and when the feelings developed I was stuck in a situation where I couldn't get away until the lease was up and it was torture. Whenever he brought some girl home, I had to be nice to them and act like it didn't hurt, and because he realised my feelings for him he started treating me so disrespectfully. Honestly save yourself the trouble and heartache, and do not be her roomate. Good Luck.
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