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writes: I am young looking widow 69 he is divorced 62 ,we meet on net. after a good start he wanted to be friends,did not love me.after 2 year now sleeps in spare room. I went along at first but we row about it .he is good to me looking after garden and brings food in,but he says he sleeps better alone .He has now taken his things while I think about what I want. I don't want him to leave me. Should I just be grateful for what he offers ,Friendship.I am so unhappy without him.I know I can not made him love me.he is a big part of my life,I do not have many close friends or family but they wonder why he stays
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (5 January 2009):
 He doesn't have to live with you to be your friend. If you want more then you should find yourself someone who wants you in the same way.
Why settle?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Okay, so he only wants to be friends, but he lives with you and is good to you etc. So why don't you still maintain the relationship as it is but also continue to look for someone who loves you at the same time? If he's only your friend he certainly shouldn't care if you do this. You deserve to have someone who loves you in a romantic fashion instead of only friends, if that's what you're looking for. You found this one on the net, why don't you try that again. Or go to church, do volunteer work, etc. There are lots of ways to meet people. Good luck to you.
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