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writes: Should I be angry that my boyfriend openly admitted that he would enjoy masturbating to porn? Should I also be angry that he has masturbated while I am home?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): its not really wrong its the fact that he wants to do it because hes actually thinking of u
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): i reckon about 99% of lads masturbate! afterall there only human! you should ba happy that his "pleasure"comes for free,at least he aint spending £ on chatlines for pleasure meaning he can spend his £ on you!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Why would you ask *should I be angry*? Can you not trust your own opinions?
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (4 March 2006):
 The answer by Bev below is probably the best I have ever read on this site... We may have disagreed about my suggestion to one question-asker to steal a penguin, but I like to think we are best of friends again!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Angry? Why?
Would you get 'angry' if he admitted that he enjoys sneaking a piece of mudcake now and then? Would you get 'angry' if you found that he sings in the shower, just because he like the resonance?
Maybe he just wants to do something to please himself and his masturbation has nothing whatsoever to do with you.
Have you thought of it from that perspective? I think you're making mountains out of molehills, here.
Men like a sexual release. Sometimes they can't be bothered to try to be a sensitive lover when a quick self-administered whack is all they want. Your boyfriend has likely been masturbating since he was 11 or 12 years old -- why would he have to stop now?
Is it because your feelings are dented and you think you're "all the woman he should ever need"? Good luck to you, then! Men are up for it all the time, every day. Even at times when you've just gotten dressed and are late for work. Even when you're just out of the bath. Even when you have a cold, a sore throat and a headache. Even when your tea is going cold. Even when you just want to read a magazine. You want him to put it on ice all the time, so you can be his only sexual outlet? That's just vanity and it's not fair for you to put restrictions on his own contact with his own penis, for cripe's sake.
Let him have his fun and try not to sweat such small issues.
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