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Should I ask this girl out, just focus on study, or do both?

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Question - (4 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey Fellows !

I hope everyone is doing great. I've come here to seek help, and which I greatly appreciate. So my story begins.

I'm a 17 year old student who is doing final year of school, this year, at my new school, I've seen a sweet girl. Well, she is in my chemistry class. I've talked to her few times just about homework and class related stuff.

She was kind as expected, I feel to ask her just to be friends and good companion. Actually, last week I was almost going to ask her, and at the last moment I turned down. So I didn't. The problem is, she will be always and always around her friends, which makes awkward for me.

Nowadays, I'm just giving myself time that next day's good, and so on, and it's actually been a month. (btw, I've never asked a girl out) But, on the other side, I feel that should I be wasting my time on this or not ? I don't know what it feels like when you have a g/f. Also, whether you will focus on study as well or not.

I really like her, let me mention not love her. (I loved one but maybe god had decided something else. Stupid me, asked the girl on facebook who I loved, not face to face. Btw, didn't work out)

So should I ask this girl or just focus on study, or do both (if works)? Thank you for any help that you can offer.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008):

Well, I'm glad that someone has answered my question.

I understand that both are as important. I think too that I should ask her and see if she is interested.. if not then it's just waste of my time until I ask. So I'd be really thankful.. if you give me ADVICE on how to do so as I have never asked a woman whom I liked. Somehow I turn back and I can't.. so please help out. Thanks a ton.

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A female reader, getright11 United States +, writes (4 November 2008):

getright11 agony auntI think that you should ask her out, chances are she really likes you too. but if you feel intimadated by her, get her alone, or maybe if she gets to class a little early make sure you get there too. everyone can make a little room for a relationship;)

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