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writes:My son recently got married. He is staying at our place with his wife. Time to time we catch them play kissing games, or making out openly in the living room and everywhere in the house, although they would keep apologizing if they get caught. As his bedroom is just beside ours, we can hear everything, especially when they seem to have sex. This all makes me and my wife feel very awkward and uncomfortable. So, should I ask them to live in a different place?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): I agree with alysha.I am an Indian lady.May be the western agony aunts don't know much about our Indian family system.I have a joint family.Instead of taking the extreme step of asking your son to find a new house,just talk to him about it.Many Indians are having nuclear families these days.But if you don't want that,discuss it with your son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Yes - I think the best thing would be for them to get a place of their own. Times have changed and yes it's your house with your rules so it's important they have their own space where they can do what they wish. And lets face it - they are a normal newly married couple that want to have some fun!Am Indian too and the thought of my brother being like that with his wife in my parents house - heavens above!!! So - they have their own home many miles away from mum and dad - so visits are strictly for cups of tea cake - no making out whatsoever!!Take care
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 I agree.
Also, (this may be a Western Philosophy) he is a big boy. He is a big enough boy to get married. It's his job to find a home for them to begin their lives as a proper married couple. He should absolutely be living on his own with his wife.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): If they can financially support themselves, then definately. Simple as that!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2009):
I think so. You don't have to tolerate him and his wife disrespecting your house like this. Either tell them to confine it to their bedroom and do it silently, or tell them it's time to find a place of their own. It's your house, so your rules.
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