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writes:I have this woman I've know since grade school as a distant friend. She married another distant friend and after 15 years, she had to divorce for a few good reasons, his drinking heavily was one of them. I am separated from my wife for over 3 years because she was screwing around with a few different guys. I tried to get our marriage back but it's useless at this point, we have remained friends but I now date and my wife never stopped playing around . I have a serious attraction to this woman, a female friend even suggested I date her, but this distant woman friend, I feel is not ready to date since it was a rough divorce. Another issue is her x, who is still a friend but by no means a person I hang out with or see much at all. I would love to ask this woman out being I'm so attracted to her. She is by no means a beauty queen, just a nice sweet loveable woman. Do you think it's wrong to want a woman who was at 1 time married to a distant friend or should I just move on and let go of this woman? My female friend feels this woman and I were meant for each other.
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reader, human_male  +, writes (6 December 2012):
 Go for it. Even if she's not ready to date you could always just be friends until she is.
I hope it works out for you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2012):
 You are both single and both adults therefore I don't see that you are doing anything wrong. If this guy was a close friend of yours, someone who you spent time with then I would say that it would be a bad idea, but you say he is not so you have nothing to lose. Go for it and ask her out on a date, you have nothing to lose.
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