A
male
age
30-35,
James_501
writes:HiI have played golf regularly for the last 2-3 months with a couple of friends. On a couple of times one of my friends sister's has turned up. We seem to get on and she is single and about the same age. I would love to ask her out but on both times have felt shy because we're in a group and I don't want to be humiliated in front of my friends.I played golf with her again today. Women are intuitive and I wouldn't be surprised if she has picked up on my shyness as it has been pronounced at the farewell stage (not during the golf).Question. I was wondering whether to ask her brother if I'm wasting my time by asking her out. Or I could email her tommorrow and ask if she fancies a couple of drinks one evening.My confidence with women is low at the moment and I have believed this girl is too good for me and wouldn't be interested. To be honest I'm expecting a no but at least I can say I've asked.Any advice greatly appreciated.James
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reader, sofiamorgan +, writes (22 June 2008):
 I say go for it!! I suggest you email her and suggest going for a drink and then maybe to see a movie.
I really hope it works out...you seem like a really nice guy!
Keep us posted please!! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): When you ain't got nothing. You got nothing to lose.
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reader, Wise Woman of the FOREST! +, writes (22 June 2008):
 If you feel there's a connection between the two of you, I say go for it.
But first make sure your friend is alright with it first so there are no argie bargies.
Don't worry about being confident, all you need is a smile and t tell yourself you are a nice guy and the chances are she will say yes.
Keep it subtle, ask her to go for a coffee or to go watch a movie.
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