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writes:Ok so this is kinda a long story... but i'll try to make it as short as i can... i really need advice... me n this guy have been on again off again for the past year... and it hurts everytime he disappears... n he knows he disappears... well i finally told him off the other night and he was askin me what happened..n i told him he didn't.... the next week i text him n he was in a good mood n said he needed to get something off his chest...n he told me how much he cares about me n that there is just one thing he just can't seem to get over... that's fine... n it was something easy to fix.. it would take time but it would be ok... so then a whole bunch of crap happened where is is.. (were in 2 diff states) n ya know we talked n everything was good... then 4 days later i hear a girl on his vm.. n i call kinda flipping out about it and he said he cant do this right now cuz he is moving and he would call me later... which i flipped out again... i love this man with all my heart... 4 days after we talked he n everything was ok he has a g/f? Now we never agreed to see only eachother while i was working on me... should i apologize for flipping out that he has a girlfriend? cuz i havent gotten rid of my issue yet that he can't stand...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Don't think it's ever going to happen. Sounds like he's moved on with someone else. You'd be wise to let go and do the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): No we aren't just "shag" buddies he lives 1300 miles away... n this is supposed to be a trying to fix things to fix the relationship so when he moves we can be together type of thing
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 Hi
Not if your only shag buddies no. What he does is his business. Thats the nature of shag buddies, do what you like, no commitment from the shag buddy and have a mate that you get your oats from all rolled in to one. Never been one myself and wouldnt wanna be, but thats what i understand it to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Not only do you need to apolgize for flipping out, but you need to find someone else to be with, this one is never going to work out and now it's clear he's got a girlfriend, so you're basically wasting your time altogether. Apologize, wish him the best and don't contact him again.
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