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writes: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move to let a guy know she is interested, or will he think she is easy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2005): Most guys, especially the shy ones, would be very taken by a woman asking him out. As a guy, I recommend that you be honest, to the point, yet subtle and gentle-so as to not come off as easy. Tell him that you've thought about him a lot, and that you have feelings for him. Get together with him in a no pressure environment such as, the zoo, park, or some barbecue party and for now, ditch the clubs and bars. Good luck!!!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (19 April 2005):
 Of course it's OK. I've always found most guys are both flattered and relieved when a woman asks them out.The perception of "easy" - or not - would come AFTER the date, I suspect, and what the woman was, and was not, willing to do.If you're interested, want to let a particular man know, and don't want to seem too over the top about it, I would just suggest that you enquire whether he's free to get together for something low key, like coffee or lunch. Save the raves and drinking sessions until you know him a bit better.Hope I've helped.
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