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She's secretly staring at her ex on facebook, but she says she hates him!

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Question - (10 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My partner has been lying about going on facebook to me and has kept many secrets about it from me. She deleted her ex's off 6 mths ago when we got engaged. We have since been married and I found out yesterday that she physically types the most recent ex's name at least once a week since they split and stares at his pictures (she looks up no one else this much). She says she hates him alot and that he was horrible to her. Why would she do this then?

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A female reader, Oblivia Sweden +, writes (10 November 2008):

Oblivia agony auntIt could be she has unresolved issues from the break up and therefore has a hard time letting go, which drives her to some kind of obsession with him. Not that that would be a good thing, but all the looking him up doesn't necessarily mean she wants him back or anything. Maybe she just needs some proper closure with him to be able to finally get peace at mind and move on?

Did you ask her about it?

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A female reader, lovelylinda South Africa +, writes (10 November 2008):

The truth is almost everyone looks at their ex's on facebook, and i personally think She obviously still feels something for him? or she's harbouring some sort of issue against him which makes her look at him. or maybe he's just the ex she never got over.. confront her :)

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